Congratulations on your engagement! You’re officially on the road to forever, and there’s so much to celebrate. As a 2024 bride, I am so excited to help you through this process of the steps that I took to make sure we were getting everything gone in a timely manner. As exciting as this time is, it can also feel overwhelming. Between picking the perfect date and finding your dream dress, there are plenty of steps to take. Don’t worry – we’ve got you covered!

Here are ten essential steps to take after getting engaged to make your wedding planning process smooth and enjoyable.

1. Celebrate Your Engagement

Take a moment to soak it all in! Whether it’s popping champagne with your partner or hosting an engagement party, celebrate this milestone with your loved ones. This is the perfect time to share your joy and maybe even announce your engagement on social media with the ring photo of your dreams.

Here’s how to do it:

At Home: Pop a bottle of champagne, cook a special dinner, or have a cozy evening reminiscing about your relationship.
With Loved Ones: Plan an engagement party or host a casual get-together. Use this time to share your engagement story and show off your ring.
Capture the Moment: Schedule a professional engagement photo session or ask a friend to snap some candid shots. These photos can be used for Save the Dates or social media announcements.
Relax and Reflect: Take time to simply enjoy being engaged without rushing into planning.

2. Set Your Budget

Before diving into planning, determine how much you’re comfortable spending on your wedding. Discuss contributions from family members if applicable and prioritize what’s most important to you both. Things to think about: DJ vs. Band? Buffet vs. Seated Dinner?

Discuss Finances: Talk with your partner and any family members contributing.

Prioritize: Identify your top wedding priorities, such as the venue, food, or photography.
Break it Down: Allocate portions of your budget to different categories (e.g., 40% for the venue, 15% for photography).
Track Expenses: Use a spreadsheet or wedding budget app to monitor spending.

3. Choose a Date

Start by picking a season or month that resonates with your vision, then narrow it down to a specific date. Remember to consider holidays, venue availability, and significant family events.

Brainstorm Seasons: Decide if you prefer a spring garden wedding or a cozy winter celebration.

Research Availability: Check with venues for open dates.
Consider Logistics: Avoid busy holiday weekends or dates conflicting with family events.
Check the Weather: Research typical weather conditions for your chosen time of year.

4. Create Your Guest List

Your guest list will determine the size of your venue and your overall budget. Start with a rough draft, breaking it down into must-invite and nice-to-have categories. This will help you stay organized and avoid surprises.

Draft a List: Write down everyone you’d like to invite.

Categorize: Separate into must-invite and optional guests.
Estimate Costs: Calculate per-guest expenses to determine feasibility.
Communicate Early: Inform close family and friends who will definitely be invited.

5. Find Your Dream Venue

Your venue sets the tone for your wedding day. Research local options, schedule tours, and be ready to book once you find "the one." Don’t forget to ask about what’s included in the package, such as catering and décor.

Research Online: Browse wedding websites and social media for venues that match your vision.

Schedule Tours: Visit your top choices to see them in person.
Ask Questions: Confirm capacity, availability, included services, and restrictions.
Book Early: Secure your date with a deposit.

6. Hire Your Vendors

From photographers and florists to DJs and caterers, your vendors bring your wedding to life. Book early to secure your favorites, especially if your wedding is during peak season. Pro tip: Read reviews and ask for recommendations from recently married friends.

Make a List: Identify the vendors you need.

Ask for Recommendations: Get referrals from friends or wedding groups.
Review Portfolios: Check their work online to ensure it matches your style.
Book Early: Popular vendors fill up quickly, especially during peak seasons.

7. Say Yes to the Dress

Whether you’re dreaming of a ball gown or a sleek, modern design, now’s the time to start dress shopping. Don’t forget to budget for alterations, accessories, and your bridal party’s attire.

Research Styles: Save inspiration photos from Pinterest or bridal magazines.

Book Appointments: Visit bridal shops to try on different silhouettes.
Bring Support: Take trusted friends or family members for feedback.
Order Early: Allow time for alterations and fittings.

8. Plan Your Bachelorette Party

Your bachelorette party is a chance to let loose and celebrate with your closest friends. Got Your Bash™ specializes in planning unforgettable bachelorette experiences tailored to your style. Whether it’s a weekend in Austin or a luxurious getaway in St. Barths, we’ll handle the details so you can focus on having fun!

Choose a Destination: Whether it’s a local hotspot or a travel getaway, decide on the vibe.

Set a Budget: Make sure the experience is accessible for all attendees.
Plan Activities: Consider spa days, wine tours, or themed nights out.
Let Us Help: Contact Got Your Bash™ for expert planning and stress-free coordination.

9. Organize Your Bridal Shower

Your bridal shower is another moment to cherish with your loved ones. Work with your host to create a theme and guest list that feels uniquely you.

Pick a Host: Typically, a close friend or family member will take the lead.

Choose a Theme: From elegant tea parties to boho picnics, personalize the event.
Create a Guest List: Invite close friends and family.
Decorate and Plan Games: Add personal touches and fun activities.

10. Save the Date

Once you’ve secured your venue and finalized your guest list, it’s time to send out Save the Dates. Choose a design that reflects your wedding style and include all the essential details.

Design Your Cards: Use wedding stationery services or online tools.

Include Key Details: Add your names, date, location, and a note about a formal invitation to follow.
Send Early: Mail these 6-8 months before the wedding.

Planning your wedding is a beautiful journey, and each step brings you closer to your big day. Remember, Got Your Bash™ is here to make your celebrations – from your bachelorette party to your bridal shower – absolutely unforgettable. Let us take care of the details so you can focus on celebrating this incredible chapter in your life. Here’s to happily ever after!

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